Tuesday, May 31, 2022
deja vu with the j-dawg!
Monday, May 30, 2022
ribs with grandpa and meemee!
That's him in the pink shirt, by the way, and this scene is at the old family house seven doors down from me.
The young man on the right in the photo is his 37-year-old son, Damon, who was there today with his girlfriend, Dana (who was up at the back porch with me and Tony's wife, Laura, aka "Meemee").
The younger people in the photo are Damon's almost-15 son, Dylan, and Damon's newly 13-year-old daughter, Carissa.
Her birthday was the day before mine; her brother's birthday will be June 19th.
This marked the first time I've I've seen them, up close and not on facebook, in eight years.
They had been living in Hinesville at the time and I made several trips there to visit and take them on shopping trips at Walmart.
Then their mom met a new man and those visits were requested to cease.
How wonderful to see them and talk to them and find out more about their favorite things!
Carissa is even interested in joining the military one day and plans to play the drums in her school band this fall!
Dylan likes to play football, on the defensive line, and is looking forward to high school with the new friends he made this year!
I look forward to learning more about them, now that they're living with their Dad.
And, besides the delicious grilled ribs, hamburgers, and hotdogs Tony had prepared...and the oh-so-tasty broccoli salad and watermelon salad and baked beans Laura prepared...
and those scrumptious gluten-free brownies she made especially for Dana..
and all the love between these three generations of recently reunited family members...
I enjoyed the delight of the two kids when Laura shared her art with them and allowed them to choose several to decorate their rooms in their new home.
As I told her, that was so generous of her and I'm sure it will nurture their creative side!
What a blessing to spend this Memorial Day with them!
i thank You, God!
Sunday, May 29, 2022
how i spent my 64th birthday, by faustina
and now I'm 64!!! sing it to me, Beatles!
I have so been waiting to claim this for my life!
About this time of morning, I was born, three generations ago.
That means sixty years, or so, which certainly describes me at 64.
i thank You, God, for helping me begin this new year of life!
Saturday, May 28, 2022
thanks, my blue-sky Penny!
Another lovely meal from Jason's Deli, of course!
Again I chose the Wild Salmon on foccacia, but paired it with tortilla chips and salsa - delicious!
I ate every scrumptious bite, too!
I had to make sure I wasn't hungry before I went to the Publix at Twelve Oaks, right?
They had free ice cream waiting for me!
Just because I'm part of their loyalty club!
(smile!)
Seriously, that's how the flavor of the nondairy dessert is titled!
Tomorrow morning, that will be part of my birthday breakfast.
Oh, yeah! Lots of protein!
Odometer says: 2 2 3 0 0 1 - perfect to start my new year!
Friday, May 27, 2022
not a hobbit or a troll or a leprechaun...
Thursday, May 26, 2022
taking care of bizness, y'all
Tuesday, May 24, 2022
elephants or donkeys
Monday, May 23, 2022
lovely, lovely, ribs!
Here's what I mean.
Sunday, May 22, 2022
two musicals in one day? i must be dreaming!
Friday, May 20, 2022
zooming to canada for a wedding!
Tuesday, May 17, 2022
gifting science to children near and far
Once upon a time, I was in charge of sharing science with locals and those visiting Savannah during National Chemistry Week.
That seems like forever ago, though it was October 2019.
The pandemic has certainly changed how time is viewed.
I had already retired before that event, so I had time to do it up right - gathering materials from the City of Savannah Water Management team and from the American Chemical Society, test-driving experiments to find those that worked best in the allotted times, getting the right to perform the experiments in Morrell Park downtown, obtaining needed insurance and security for the public event, making sure the event found its way into the press and onto the airwaves, leaning on the boss to get the volunteers to help.
I ended up overgathering, as it turned out.
Better to have too much than not enough, n'est-ce pas?
I managed sharing much of the leftovers with a friend's school, as well as in Christmas packages that year, and had set aside the rest for my church's youth group.
A year ago, the woman in charge of the youth program left.
The leftover chemistry materials and science activity books have been languishing in my living room closet ever since 2019, waiting to find their way into students' hands.
No more!
Monday, May 16, 2022
happy birthday, my little fish face!
Saturday, May 14, 2022
john and matt before sudden death came along
Friday, May 13, 2022
i can take a hint: keepin' my silly self home
Back in early February, before my heart lost its rhythm, I'd been invited for an all-expenses-paid week-long stay by my cousin Penny's paternal cousin, Jeff of Nebraska.
"February 9, fb message: Hi Tina! Hey my friend Sean and I have rented a house on St.George Island May 14th through 21st of this year. Penny will join us there and I hope you will come too! This is your official invite! Sean and I will arrive in Tallahassee sometime in the evening of the 13th. We can't actually check in until 3pm in the 14th and may not be able to get in the house until 6pm. But we will have the house all week so PLEASE JOIN US! The house is already paid for. All you need to bring is yourself and the stuff you need for the beach. Sean and I will buy groceries and pay for our restaurant (The Blue Parrot) visits which will be frequent. I miss and love you Tina! Please say you will join us!
Oh we are staying in the home called "GIMME SHELL'TER" it is viewable on the Fickling real estate site. Look at it, it's perfect for a get together!"
And it was, too!
As I had replied, "That sounds fantabulous! It's been decades since I've been there. My chem nerds fraternity rented a house there for spring break, so long ago. Yes, I gladly accept! What a bonus to stay in the house named for a Rolling Stones song!"
Then came three hospital visits, with two overnight, for multiple attempts at getting my heart rate back to its regular pace.
Yeah, yeah, yeah... no (as that guy on "The Vicar Of Dibley" would say), that still hasn't happened, and Tuesday made three months since the diagnosis of atrial fibrillation.
Not that there hasn't been progress, because there certainly has been.
The atrial fibrillation is gone, and I'm quite possibly going to be on Sotalol for a year to try to keep it from returning.
The new problem are the dizzy spells from that anti-arrhythmia drug, due to my new heart rate down in the low forties.
So, limited highway driving during daylight, low-traffic, periods, and absolutely no driving after dark. Period. Not even in town.
That means I wouldn't have been able to leave today and head to Tallahassee to join the group that'll be vacationing on that Florida island beach.
Fine.
Well, as I'd still be in town for the weekend of the 14th and 15th of May, that meant the Hot Air Balloon Festival in Statesboro could be my destination! So I'd contacted my first niece and posed the possibility to her... and she jumped for it! Hooray!All I would need to do is drive to Hinesville and catch a ride with her and the girls, then plan to stay overnight with them, so I could return to Savannah in daylight.
That sounded like a working plan to her!
We made sure to get our tickets on Tuesday, so we would have the "early bird" discount - and the two girls were young enough to be free!
Woohoo!
Then she called today.
She had run into the back of someone's vehicle, and, although she and the older girl were fine, the van was not, and possibly would not be for some time.
So, she posited, why don't I drive to Hinesville Saturday morning, transfer the girls' safety seats into my car, then drive to Statesboro for the festival?
Well, that maybe could have worked, if she could drive stick shift... but she can't.
That meant all the driving, with much of it at highway speeds, would fall on me.
Three hours, at a minimum, probably more like four and a half.
But that wasn't the worst of it.
I'd also have to drive back to Hinesville, in the dark, at highway speeds.
I can only imagine how scrambled my nerves would be by that point, if I were even able to complete such a mission.
I had to explain to her that I was not yet at the point in my healing that I could do that.
I also told her that the Universe must be sending me the message to stay in town this weekend, as I'd had two good reasons for leaving and both had been quashed.
I don't know that she quite believed that, but she didn't deny the theory.
Now, I'll be curious to see what happens tomorrow.
At least I'll be part of the food drive.
Thursday, May 12, 2022
having a bit of the irish after a bit of royalty
Ryan McCurdy and Jenn Bishop of SavRepTh!